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10 Warning Signs Of A Hurtful Relationship

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About 30% of women on Earth are involved in an abusive relationship, according to statistics from the World Health Organization (WHO).

You may think that it can’t happen to you, but in many cases, the fringe characteristics and behaviors of domestic violence may already be there. 

Warning Signs Of A Harmful Relationship

Here are some warning signs of a harmful relationship, according to law enforcement.

  • Your partner is jealous and possessive.

  • Your partner tries to control you by being bossy and not considering your opinion.

  • Your partner scares you and you are afraid to make him or her angry.

  • Your partner has a quick temper.

  • Your partner has a history of violence.

  • Your partner pressures you into doing things that you do not want to do, like having sex or breaking the law.

  • Your partner abuses drugs and/or alcohol.

  • Your partner blames you for all of his or her problems.

  • Your partner has a history of bad relationships.

  • Your family and friends have warned you about your partner or told you that they are worried about your safety.

How To Get Out Of An Abusive Relationship

Abusive relationships don’t simply go away on their own or by osmosis. They must be confronted, but in a calm manner that doesn’t further endanger your life.

  1. Unattach yourself from a person who makes you feel unworthy of being loved or who is trying to manipulate your feelings.

  2. Be firm in telling the person that it is not your responsibility to fix or save them and that you can’t “make” them treat you a certain way.

  3. Remain calm, if you can.

  4. Report physical abuse to the authorities and for support, tell your family members and friends about the situation.

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If you or someone you know is having suicidal thoughts or practicing self-harm, contact the the U.S. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-TALK (8255) any time. Online live chat is also available. Crisis Text Line also provides free, 24/7, confidential support via text message to people in crisis when they dial 741741. If you are experiencing domestic abuse, for assistance, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.